BROKEN, WOUNDED,HURT... A WRONG DETOUR?

Someone once told me that, Pain and Sorrow go hand in hand with true love, for love is never ideal but real. Just like what City of Angels had said, “When it hurts it’s REAL.”

     How come we need to feel PAIN and SORROW every time we fall out of love? Can we just love with glow and smile on our faces without experiencing HEARTACHES? Because this MISERY that I’ve been having right now is killing me bit by bit, turning me wounded that every drop of blood leaves me dehydrated, hurting me so badly that it almost left me breathless and restless.It is so hard being trapped in a place which has less air to breathe. It crushes you so much, makes you dyspneic and begging, begging for more air to sustain your life to keep you surviving. How sad it was that we have to go through all these stuff just to experience REAL LOVE. Am I just experiencing this because I took the wrong detour? Unaware that the other way around was the right path to where I'm were supposed to take? But because of this stubbornness, it left me wondering, encountering this complicated detour of love. So, should I continue this wrong turn or go back instead? And refrain from getting hurt from the ones who’s not worth my love and take the right direction although it could take me a lot more TIME, PATIENCE & EFFORT but full of PROMISES, NO HEARTACHES, NO TEARS OF SADNESS but TEARS OF LAUGHTERS waiting in the end.